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Originally posted by soleachip:
Some will disagree with me but the most important thing is, do you enjoy yourself when you're in him or her? Does being with this person make your toes curl? If the answer is yes, then I say abandon all the labels. Life is short, so live hard. If you're doing everything a couple does when they're in a "relationship" then why be so vexed over the label?
If you guys are not sleeping with each other then you're definitely not fuck buddies or friends with benefits.
Just enjoy yourself and don't think so much. Don't hanker over all these questions no one will be able to answer because whatever happens between the both of you, we don't know.
Keep the loving!
thanks a lot. very insightful.
its because she wants to remain single. and she feels bad that she broke the news to me, yet she wants to keep in communication and so do i. so it happened.
sometimes we are happy. happy when we spend time together.
yet unhappy when we talk about being in THE relationship again.
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find out ur objective. if u just wan her to be with you, then ask, if she rejects then u can just end ur misery now and stop ur mind going on a wild goose chase.
if juz as friends, and you two get together, better. and if both of you cant, then you all can try to be friends (hopefully).
but then again, dont set your hopes too high, you may get dissapointed. then again the surprise may just be a fulfilling one if you dont set your goals too far up.
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in the past, it seemed everything was right, friends and family thought we were the right one, but i started the abuse in the relationship and she left me.
this time round i did not use any violence anymore.
yes, there should be mutual respect and space for each other, but what if the partner is capricious, and does so much behind your back?
if we are saying 'whats ours will be ours and what's not wont be', then why shouldnt we fight for whats ours? its the insecurity some flirting partner gives to us that leads to a more restricted relationship right? can we blame ourselves totally?
then again, it takes two hands to clap.
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tried and tried, this time no violence.
but it seems relationships after relationships go down the drain.
i had a thread before and yes, i did not resort to abuse in a relationship. yet what i do is throw tempers.
it seems, i have put aside many instances of chances where girls are decent and demure, the traditional dream girls.
my taste has evolved, into something, voracious and unique.
i have been doing some soul searching and knew what i want: girls with character, spunk, x-factor.
i recently got together with another girl and yeah she left. but somehow i identified the problem. girls with character seek independence. they seek distance between each other and understanding. however, i keep treating the girl as she is dependent on me. and it fails because i seem too 'clingy' to her. and the clingy feel only comes in when i deem a girl dependent on me.
i view it as a mistake on my part. so the burning question is, what do girls with the X-FACTOR want? what do they need?well i dont need specific answers but just, in you peoples' opinion, probably through past experiences would be nice.
thanks.
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